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Joshua Melvin
Brighton, MA, United States
I'm a country boy making it *big* in the city.
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Friday, May 18, 2007

A win by a loss is not a win

If there’s anything I hate more than losing, it’s winning by the opponents mistake.

7 games of pool later, someone beat me. And I mean they played better than I did and sunk the 8-ball while I still had another ball on the table. That’s a win. I hate winning when they have out-shot me but then strike on the 8-ball shot. That’s not a win. I definitely won a few games through skill, but of the 6 games I played, I should have lost the 3rd game.

I think the same holds true in business. A business doesn’t truly win when the competition screws up and misses a shot. Yes, they can get ahead and keep playing, but to be able to keep that streak going, they actually need to be better than the competition. They need to work harder, be more aggressive, and really push to do better than they may think is possible. It’s making that bank shot that you don’t feel you know how to make. It’s hitting the long ball resting on the bumper. Yes, there are going to be plenty of missed shots, but you can only learn to make those shots by practicing.

Here’s where it breaks down a bit. It’s a lot easier to practice pool all by yourself, without risk of losing to an opponent. If you’re the only one at the table, nobody can screw up your shots but you. In business, unless you’re the only one doing what you do, you always are playing against a (potentially more) skilled opponent. And even if you’re the only one in the field, it’s not going to last long in today’s digital world. What can help you are your clients. If you’re really good to them, in some exceptional way (which really shouldn’t be that hard), they will help you win the next competition. Even if they don’t realize they’re doing it.

So how often do you practice that bank shot?

Sunday, May 13, 2007

Saturday, May 12, 2007

The Hero’s Journey

While reading my blogs, I came across a post about Spiderman 3 & The Hero’s Journey. Alvin Soon reveals how the Spiderman story, as well as Lord Of The Rings, are perfect examples of The Hero’s Journey.

The Journey is a 9-point recognition of the challenges and rewards of hearing a call to change, and the major steps required to effect the change and reap the rewards of following the call. It called to me, because I feel that I have started the same journey in my own life. I’ve heard and recognized the call, and I’ve begun to act upon it.

These articles and subsequent eBook version have gotten their inspiration from Joseph Campbell’s The Hero with a Thousand Faces, a book that studies myths and legends and realizes a common theme throughout them all. Soon has taken this and written an easy-to-read, concise, and informative series of articles that can help you realize and map your progress through your own experiences.

Having read the eBook, I realized I’ve been through this very journey at least once before, and I am currently doing so again. I’m currently between points 3 and 4, and step 4 (Crossing the Threshold) of the journey is quite difficult to pass through. I’ve found a couple of mentors, and I have been able to define what I’d like to do. Now I’ve begun to hit my first challenges to this, and I have to find a way to surpass them.